1) Someone who's family family loves me more than my own family does
2) Someone who will tell me the truth even when I don't want to hear it
3) Someone who will stand up for me when no one else will
4) Someone who can seriously talk about things like God with me
5) Someone who makes me feel good about myself
6) Someone who never would let a boy come between us
7) Someone who always has my back, even when I'm wrong
8) Someone who laughs with me and my unfunny jokes
9) Someone who pulls me back to reality when I've gone astray
10) Someone who cares about me and always has my back
Any persons meeting the following will be automatically disqualified:
1) Anyone who leaves me stranded and alone at parties
2) Anyone who talks shit about me to my ex boyfriend
3) Anyone who cuts me down just so they feel better
4) Anyone who gossips about me to make them feel better
5) Anyone who doesn't truly want the best for me
6) Anyone who makes my cry
7) Anyone who thinks they are 'too cool' for me
8) Anyone who calls me a bitch
9) Anyone who spreads secrets I've entrusted to them
10) Anyone who cares about themselves more than they care about me
If you meet these requirements please contact me.
Why can friends be so hard? They can either lift you up or they can make you feel worse than anyone else in the world. I feel like we're in an abusive relationship. We always go back and forth fighting over the dumbest things. With high school progressing, it gets really hard to not have that one solid, stable best girl friend. It is not my place to apologize for our fight, but that is what always seems to happen. I guess were okay now, but I'm not sure if it's for the best.
I find it really interesting/cool that the requirements you list have nothing to do with how friendships tend to form, like, the people who go to your school or are on your sports team, who are similar to you, or who can make you more popular etc. It's good to know that you wouldn't reject someone as a friend if they were different, if they were a good person but just couldn't offer much, or if they weren't seen by others as highly as they were seen by you. :) good stuff maddie
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